Organized by skills required
No reading, coordination, sharp safety or heat safety skills required
(reasonable adult supervision still required)
- Wash hands before cooking
- Count out produce into a bag at the store
- Help find items at the grocery store
- Pick out a vegetable or fruit to buy and try
- Name different foods/ingredients as you cook
- Taste, smell, or touch ingredients (safely of course; avoid handling raw meat, poultry, fish, eggs, or foods with these as ingredients)
- Taste a dressing/sauce to see if it needs more salt/sugar/pepper/garlic/etc.
- Describe different ingredients: appearance, texture, smell, taste, category (vegetable, fruit, meat, grain, protein, canned, frozen, etc.)
- Choose dressing or toppings for a salad
- Find an appropriately sized container for leftovers
- Count out ingredients
- Play with non-breakable bowls and spoons
When I was a toddler, my mom had one low cabinet that had the metal mixing bowls and pots that I was allowed to play with and I totally thought a two piece bundt/angel food cake pan (like this one) would make a great snowman costume if I put the pointy part on my head like a top hat and wore the round part around my neck as a…scarf? I’m not sure what I was thinking. But I definitely got stuck in the round part and panicked and my mom had to help me get out and it’s one of my earliest memories
- Suggest a meal or side dish
- Choose a meal or side dish
- Look through a cookbook or cooking magazine together and choose some recipes to try
- Choose a recipe from a cooking show to try (even if it is just used as an inspiration)
- Follow a video tutorial together
Some limited physical coordination required
Many of these tasks can be done by very small toddlers who have an adult helper. Very small kids probably won’t be able to complete the task by themselves, but they will be able to participate, which is the important part. Check out the ADORABLE Chef Kobe here for some visual proof that toddlers can do these types of tasks
- Sprinkle toppings on a salad
- Sprinkle cheese or breadcrumb topping
- Rinse lettuce leaves
- Add pre-measured ingredients to a mixture
- Mix spice mixtures/sauces/batters
- Mix meatballs
- Put ingredients in a pot to cook
- Collect bowls/measuring cups/measuring spoons
- Move dirty dishes from the table to the counter or dishwasher
- Get out toppings/condiments and put them on the table
- Scramble eggs
- Mash potatoes, bananas, or squash
- Scrub potatoes
- Shake a jar or container of dressing or seasonings to mix it (just make sure it is fully closed!)
- Shake a jar of overnight oats or chia seed pudding to combine (Add recipes here)
- Rinse or scrub veggies, fruits, or herbs
- Put ingredients into a slow cooker
- Throw skins/peels/package wrappers in a garbage bowl, trash, or compost bin
- Carry dirty dishes to the counter/sink/dishwasher
- Wipe off a table or a counter
- Toss veggies in oil and seasonings by shaking them in a closed container
- Cut out dough with cookie cutters
- Decorate cookies with sprinkles/frosting
- Top pizzas with cheese and toppings
Somewhat higher coordination or level of strength required
Will still require an adult supervisor and possibly an adult helper
- Help put away groceries
- Find and collect ingredients as you read them from the recipe
- Measure ingredients
- Put away ingredients as they are used
- Remove husk and silk from corn on the cob
- Pull garlic cloves from a head of garlic
- Peel garlic cloves that have been smashed
- Use a garlic press to press garlic
- Use a measuring cup or pitcher to add water to a pot
- Press buttons on a mixer, blender, or food processor
- Knead dough
- Crush nuts or bread crumbs in a plastic bag with a rolling pin, pot, fists, or Hulk hands if you want to make it extra fun
- Put plates, cups, silverware, and/or napkins on the table
- Peel an orange or banana
- Section oranges
- Snap asparagus
- Use a lettuce spinner to dry lettuce
- Dry lettuce by spinning it in a towel or mesh bag
- Tear up lettuce leaves
- Toss a salad
- Toss veggies in oil and seasonings for roasting using a bowl and spoon/fork
- Use a cookie scoop to portion out cookies/biscuits/meatballs
- Shape meatballs, rolls or other doughs
- Turn on slow cooker
- Peel an onion that has been cut in halves or quarters
- Put spreads on bread or toast
- Put dirty dishes in the dishwasher or sink or on the counter
Reading skills required
- Preheat the oven
- Read recipe out loud
- Read the ingredients list out loud
- Find a recipe
- Write ingredients on a grocery list
- Search for and add foods to an online grocery order
- Read the grocery list and cross items off the list as they are bought
- Follow directions to prepare microwave food
- Write and decorate a menu (although, they can just decorate a menu and “write” if they don’t actually know how to write. No one actually needs to read it 😊)
- Find a recipe that they want to try in a cookbook
- Search for and find a recipe to make online
- Follow a simple recipe
Sharp safety skills required
Use your best judgment as a parent
- Grate garlic
- Use scissors to cut fresh herbs
- Use scissors to cut pizza or quesadilla that has cooled
- Use an egg slicer
- Use a cheese slicer
- Use an egg slicer to cut strawberries
- Wash and cut grape bunches with scissors
- Put vegetables/meat on skewers
- Add ingredients to a food processor or blender
- Press the buttons on a food processor or blender
Kids can start to learn knife skills earlier than you might think! Here are two really great resources on how to start helping kids use knives safely and in an age-appropriate way (superhealthykids.com and happykidskitchen.com/) Might as well start teaching them safe skills early! (Besides, the earlier they learn, the earlier they can help!)
- Chop lettuce with a lettuce knife
- Chop soft vegetables or fruits (banana, cucumber, zucchini)
- Chop dough (to section for rolls)
- Chop or slice vegetables
Heat safety required
- Steam frozen veggies in the microwave and then season
- Make toast
- Make a microwaveable food
- Stir a pot or pan
- Add ingredients to a pot or pan on the stove
- Follow a simple recipe that involves using the oven or stove
Please note that these are ideas meant to empower you to involve your kids in the cooking process. You are the one who best knows your child’s abilities. Use your best judgement to choose activities that will be appropriate for your child. Please make sure you supervise your children during these activities, especially those that involve heat or sharp blades!
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